I'm the
type of person that researches things and organizes when they get stressed.
When I was getting ready for first year university, I searched for advice about
living off campus. I found tons of things about living in residence, but almost
nothing about commuting to campus. Here is what I've learned this year.
When I
accepted my offer to the University of Guelph I knew that I did not want to
live in residence unless I absolutely had to. I don't drink and I did not want
to deal with all the party stories that I had heard about. That left me with
two options:
1) Get an
apartment in Guelph and take the bus in to the university
2) Live at
home, get a car and commute to campus
I went with
option 2.
I chose to
get a car because it allowed me a little more freedom. I can go wherever I wish
without having to worry about bus schedules. Living at home is great; I get
food, love and support from my family. However, it does come with its
challenges. As my first year of
university comes to an end I would like to share with you some of my tips about
commuting to university.
1) Develop
a routine.
I've found
that I really have to get into a weekly routine. I do laundry on Tuesdays and
Saturdays. I do my weekly readings on the same day every week, for example. I
try my best to leave for university at around the same time most days. Develop
a routine, it helps you stay organized.
2) Find a
place to go during breaks between classes
I go to the
computer science lab. There is almost always a spot to sit, unlike in the
library. Having a place to go between classes prevents me from wandering around
the library and allows me to use my time wisely during the break.
3) Find
something you like to listen to while you drive
I listen to
talk radio. I find it really interesting. It takes my mind off the 45 minute
commute. I also listen to the radio. Sometimes my commutes turn into a karaoke
party for 1. Having something, a favourite CD, talk radio, music radio, audio
book or whatever you feel is fitting.
4) Keep
your vehicle (relatively) clean
It drives
me crazy when my car has a lot of garbage in it. I have a small garbage bag
which I made, that holds small things and I try to empty out my car when I get
home.
This is my garbage bin I made, pretty small but it keeps my car from getting cluttered. Plus it's cute.
5) Find a
group and try to get involved
I know it's
really difficult to live off campus. It can be extremely lonely. I went to
Intervarsity Christian Fellowship (IVCF) during my first few weeks of
university and that made all the difference. I made two amazing friends who I
can eat lunch with now. With my schedule I haven't been able to go to bible
study, but it is so helpful to have a support group and to know that you're not
alone. I know it's difficult, but try to find some friends. It makes all the
difference.
6) Leave
enough time!
Try your
best to leave plenty of time to get to campus. My commute is 45 minutes, and
since I'm from out in the country, I get stuck behind tractors a lot. I leave
double the time just in case. You may think that’s too early, but I find I can
get a reading done in the morning if I get to class early. The stress of
worrying if you are going to be late to class is NOT worth sleeping in for.
Living off
campus is not easy. It takes a lot of organization, but it definitely has its
upsides. I love being able to see my family and the ability to go wherever I
please. I love having my own room and getting to see my boyfriend on weekends.
All of this would not be possible if I lived in residence.
I hope this
helps you out!